
Living with Erythromelalgia is an online patient support community that is powered by BensFriends.org, a network of patient support communities for rare diseases. Our mission at Ben’s Friends is to ensure that patients living with rare diseases or chronic illnesses, as well as their caregivers, family, and friends, have a safe and supportive place to connect with others like them.
Erythromelalgia (EM) is a rare neurovascular pain disorder that can cause redness and pain in all parts of the body, but most frequently the extremities, such as the hands and feet. It is characterized by intense burning pain, severe redness (erythema), and increased skin temperature that may be episodic or almost continuous in nature. The specific underlying cause of EM remains unknown.
Erythromelalgia may occur either as a primary or secondary disorder (i.e. a disorder in and of itself or a symptom of another condition). Secondary erythromelalgia can result from small fiber peripheral neuropathy of any cause, essential thrombocytosis (erythromelalgia can also develop in the presence of normal platelet counts in patients with myeloproliferative disorder), hypercholesterolemia, mushroom or mercury poisoning, and some autoimmune disorders. Primary erythromelalgia is caused by mutation of the voltage-gated sodium channel α-subunit gene SCN9A.
LivingWithErythromelalgia.org is a virtual peer-to-peer community intended to be a safe place for patients and family members as young as age 12, to visit for information, discussion, venting and mutual support. Members come from many backgrounds. Some have a strong religious faith, and others no faith; some are children and others adults, rich and poor, graduate educated or taught by life. Our common denominators are that we share a life journey, and we try to help each other.
How is Ben’s Friends Different from Social Media and Other Support Sites?
Our mission at Ben’s Friends is to ensure that patients living with rare diseases or chronic illnesses, as well as their caregivers, family, and friends, have a safe and supportive place to connect with others like them.
We’re interested in you as a person, and in your struggles as a rare disease patient. But we don’t want to know your name or where you live. We won’t even allow you to use your real name when you register for one of our communities. Because when it comes to medical things, anonymity is important in our googly universe. Your information is never shared, and your activity never tracked by adware.
When Ben’s Friends asks for the country and region you live in, that’s in case your fellow members can recommend local resources and help, and so everyone knows what kind of medical system there is where you live. That’s important when it comes to giving and getting support. Because we are all about support, and we’re all in this together..
Ben’s Friends: Safe and Supportive.
And anonymous to keep it that way.
Why create an account?
Posts on the different Ben’s Friends communities can be read by anyone on the internet. You can browse through the different topics and find most of the information you’re looking for but there are many things you won’t be able to do unless you create an account. These include:
Making your own posts. Although you’re able to find useful information just by reading other members’ posts, you might still have a lot of questions in your mind. Either you want to start a new topic to talk about them in detail or you want to reply to a comment on a thread. These won’t be possible unless you create a new user account.
Viewing other members’ profiles. Member profiles include information about the country or region they are from, whether they are a patient or a caregiver, and details about their disease and treatments. Maybe you came across an interesting post and you want to learn more about the member. Or maybe you’re looking for members who are from the same country as you. Having a user account allows you to see other member profiles and find information that may be relevant.
Sending private messages. Aside from being able to post publicly and commenting on a thread, having a user account also allows you to send private messages both to other members and moderators. In case you want to discuss a topic only with a specific person, this is possible by sending private messages when you have created your account.
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Latest Discussions
- Bobs protocol Michelle 2by Michelle55 on December 31, 2025
Has anyone drove a car after doing this? I’m on day 5. Feet are sore and painful. Michelle from Australia 1 post – 1 participant Read full topic
- Bob’s Protocol with Michelleby Michelle55 on December 29, 2025
Why can’t we use fans while doing bobs protocol? Michelle 2 posts – 2 participants Read full topic
- Foods that don’t triggerby Michelle55 on December 28, 2025
Hi everyone, What do you guys with EM eat for breakfast lunch and dinner? I’m finding most foods trigger me. Michelle 1 post – 1 participant Read full topic
- Anyone in Norway with this terrible desease?by Johanna on December 28, 2025
I found out what’s happening with my hands and feet by googling the symptems: burning pain and hot and red hands and feet. Not all limbs at the same time, but the pain wakes me up at night. I have had polyneuropathy for some time and that hurts as hell too. I see that this illness is very rare, […]
- Toe affectedby Rclouviere on December 20, 2025
I’ve been diagnosed with EM. Doctor isn’t 100% positive. I’ve had symptoms for 7 years and I’ve gone to every type of doctor imaginable. Finally a dermatologist thinks it’s EM. I have neuropathy that may be a symptom of EM? I have several symptoms from EM, including numbness under my […]
- Does it matter?by Michelle55 on December 20, 2025
Bob’s Protocol Hi everyone. Just a question. Is there a better time day or night to do this with soaking my feet? Also. Should I start it in summer , autumn, spring or winter? Or does it not matter? I’m asking as it’s summer here and it’s too hot not to have aircon on or a fan. Thanks so […]
- Erythromelalgia on the faceby OOHMMY007 on December 2, 2025
Does anyone have anything that has erythromelalgia on the face??? Pain is an understatement . I lost everything. My job, apartment, my vehicle. I’ve never felt pain like this before. I went from active to basically bed ridden. My face turns so red it actually turns to purple. My eyelids swell so […]
- Today is Giving Tuesday. Here Are Two Easy Ways to Help Our Communityby ModSupport on December 2, 2025
Hi everyone, Today is Giving Tuesday, a day when many people look for meaningful causes to support. If you would like to help our community today, here are two simple and meaningful options. 1) Share our campaign with friends or family This is one of the most helpful things members can do. Even if […]
- Amitriptyline/ketamineby Rclouviere on November 30, 2025
My doctor is going to prescribe amitriptyline/ketamine cream. She believes it couple help in a couple weeks. Anyone with experience with this cream? 1 post – 1 participant Read full topic
- Looking for local friends with the condition- DC metro areaby plants4protein on November 28, 2025
Hi, I’m new here and I unfortunately don’t have many friends left in my local area because of this disease. I’m mostly housebound because of the progression, but I would love to chat with anyone in this general area for advice and support. I’m in the NOVA area. 1 post – 1 […]






